Since 1981, October has been commemorated as National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. The observance serves to educate communities, individuals, couples and families about Family Advocacy Program services and other community resources that can help prevent, raise awareness of community responsibility and resources for addressing domestic abuse. Domestic violence is never okay. It can be physical or emotional or both.

It knows no economic or physical boundaries. No boundary on age, race, ethnicity or gender. Marine Corps Logistics Base Barstow is committed to eradicating the current national epidemic of Domestic Violence. It is our belief that by educating the community about the warning signs of domestic violence we can prevent the tragedies that often accompany these situations. Please join us at the many events we have planned throughout the month to raise awareness.

If you or someone you know is in a domestic violence situation, please reach out to us or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 and get help now.

PURPLE RIBBON SCAVENGER HUNT

DATE: Monday, October 1 – Wednesday, October 31
TIME: 7:30am-3:30pm
LOCATION: Marine & Family Programs, Building 17
CONTACT: Family Advocacy Program, 760-577-6533
DESCRIPTION: Purple Ribbons (the universal symbol for Domestic Violence Prevention) have been placed throughout the installation. To raise awareness and support the importance of domestic violence prevention month, please join in the scavenger hunt and bring those purple ribbons to building 17 for a reward and to show your support for the eradication of domestic violence in our community.

DVAM INFORMATION BAGS – NEBO MAIN GATE

DATE: Tuesday, October 2, 2018
TIME: 6:30-8:30am
LOCATION: NEBO Main Gate
CONTACT: Family Advocacy Program, 760-577-6533
DESCRIPTION: October is Domestic Violence Prevention and Awareness Month. There is a growing epidemic of domestic violence incidences in this nation. You hear them on the news almost weekly. Domestic Violence situations are PREVENTABLE and we all play a role. Whether you see it happening and step in as a bystander, whether it is happening to you or someone you know these information bags will provide you the resources you need to support that person. See Something? Say Something! Do Something! You could save lives.

TEEN SCAVENGER HUNT

DATE: Wednesday, October 3
TIME: 4-5:30pm
LOCATION: Desert View Housing Community Center, Building 363
CONTACT: Family Advocacy Program, 760-577-6533
DESCRIPTION: Kids 12-18 years, bring your phones, iPads, etc…to participate in the Teen Scavenger Hunt at the Base Housing Community Center. There will be snacks for all participants, prizes for the winners, and great information on how to have and maintain a healthy relationship.

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE PREVENTION MONTH GUEST SPEAKER – VICTOR RIVERS

DATE: Thursday, October 4, 2018
TIME: 8:30-10:30am
LOCATION: Major General James L. Day Conference Center, Building 38
CONTACT: Family Advocacy Program, 760-577-6533
DESCRIPTION: Join us for a powerful presentation from Domestic Violence survivor and advocate, Mr. Victor Rivers. He will give us a glimpse into his life and how he overcame a life of adversity and became an advocate for those in domestic violence situations.

DVAM INFORMATION BAGS – NEBO MAIN GATE

DATE: Tuesday, October 16, 2018
TIME: 6:30-8:30am
LOCATION: NEBO Main Gate
CONTACT: Family Advocacy Program, 760-577-6533
DESCRIPTION: October is Domestic Violence Prevention and Awareness Month. There is a growing epidemic of domestic violence incidences in this nation. You hear them on the news almost weekly. Domestic Violence situations are PREVENTABLE and we all play a role. Whether you see it happening and step in as a bystander, whether it is happening to you or someone you know these information bags will provide you the resources you need to support that person. See Something? Say Something! Do Something! You could save lives.

CULTURAL DIVERSITY TRAINING & DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

DATE: Thursday, October 18, 2018
TIME: 1:30-3:30pm
LOCATION: Major General James L. Day Conference Center, Building 38
CONTACT: Family Advocacy Program, 760-577-6533
DESCRIPTION: Come learn about the diverse perspectives on domestic violence and how domestic violence situations are viewed in different cultures. Open to all MCLB patrons! Light refreshments will be served.

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE PREVENTION MONTH SURVIVOR WALK

DATE: Friday, October 26, 2018
TIME: 2:30-5pm
LOCATION: Major General James L. Day Conference Center, Building 38
CONTACT: Family Advocacy Program, 760-577-6533
DESCRIPTION: October is Domestic Violence Prevention and Awareness Month. There is a growing epidemic of domestic violence incidences in this nation. You hear them on the news almost weekly. Domestic Violence situations are PREVENTABLE and we all play a role. Whether you see it happening and step in as a bystander, whether it is happening to you or someone you know you can be prepared to offer assistance. On this day, we support those that have survived a domestic situation and honor those that have not. See Something? Say Something! Do Something! You could save lives.

The Family Advocacy Program (FAP) is designed to address child abuse and domestic abuse within the Marine Corps community through prevention, identification, and treatment. FAP staff are trained in the dynamics of abuse in order to assist in protecting victims and supporting families.

Research shows that early intervention allows families to make positive and sustainable changes. Research also indicates that without education and intervention, abuse will increase and persist.

We encourage anyone experiencing abuse to seek help immediately.

What is Domestic Abuse?

Domestic Abuse is defined as a pattern of behavior resulting in emotional/psychological abuse, economic control, and/or interference with personal liberty that is directed toward a person who is:

  • A current or former spouse
  • A person with whom the abuser shares a child in common; or
  • A current or former intimate partner with whom the abuser shares or has shared common domicile.

 

What is Child Abuse?

Childhood abuse takes many forms, physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, Shaken Baby Syndrome, bullying, exploitation, and trafficking. When we speak of child abuse, we normally think of physical abuse, spankings, and so on, but the shocking truth is that neglect is the number one form of child abuse in the U.S. 

  • Physical Abuse: Any non-accidental injury to a child
  • Emotional Abuse: Any attitude or behavior, which interferes with a child’s mental health or social development
  • Neglect: Failure to provide for a child’s physical needs
  • Sexual Abuse: Any sexual act between an adult and a child

Victim Advocacy

Victim advocates are available to offer support services to victims of spousal/intimate partner domestic abuse or sexual assault, as well as support services to non-offending parents in child abuse incidents. They advocate for victim’s rights and needs, while informing them of reporting options assisting them with staying safe, serving as a liaison between the victim and Command, and offering continued support. Victim assistance is also available through the law enforcement, medical, and legal process. Victim Advocate Office Hours: Monday – Friday 7:30am – 4pm (760) 577-6533. After hours please contact: 24 Hour Emergency Assistance for Domestic Violence including Spousal Sexual Abuse at (760) 577-6484.

Reporting Options

Unrestricted
Victims of domestic violence who want to pursue an official investigation of an incident should use current reporting channels, such as their chain of command, Family Advocacy Program (FAP), or law enforcement. Upon notification of a reported domestic abuse incident, victim advocacy services and FAP clinical services will be offered to the victim. In addition, the healthcare provider will conduct any forensic medical examination deemed appropriate, at the victim’s discretion and request. All reports of child abuse are unrestricted reports.
Restricted
Restricted reporting allows an adult victim of domestic abuse to disclose the details of his or her abuse to specifically identified individuals and to receive medical treatment and victim advocacy services without requiring that notice be provided to the victim’s or alleged offender’s commander or law enforcement. Victims of domestic abuse who desire to make a restricted report under the policy MUST report the abuse to one of the following specific individuals: a Victim Advocate Supervisor, or healthcare provider. Additionally, a victim’s disclosure of his or her domestic abuse to persons other than those covered by this policy may result in an investigation of the allegations by law enforcement and clinical intervention from FAP.
Exceptions
Exceptions to confidentiality and restricted reporting and limitations on use-information regarding a restricted report may be disclosed to the following persons or entities for the following reasons: Named individuals when disclosure is authorized by the victim in writing

  • Command officials or law enforcement when necessary to prevent or lessen a serious or imminent threat to the health or safety of the victim or another person.
  • FAP and any other agencies authorized by law to receive reports of child abuse or neglect when, as a result of the victim’s disclosure, the Victim Advocate or healthcare provider has a reasonable belief that child abuse has also occurred. However, disclosure will be limited only to information related to the child abuse.
  • Disability Retirement Boards and officials when disclosure by a healthcare provider is required for fitness for duty for disability retirement determinations, limited only to that information which is necessary to process the disability retirement determination.
  • Supervisors of the Victim Advocate or healthcare provider when disclosure is required for the supervision of direct victim treatment of services.
  • Military or civilian courts of competent jurisdiction when a military, Federal or State judge issues a subpoena for the covered communications to be presented to the court or to other officials or entities when the judge orders such disclosure; or to other officials or entities when required by Federal or State statute or applicable U.S. international agreement.

Important Numbers

SAPR 24/7 Support Line
(760) 577-6036

DoD SAFE Helpline
(877) 995-5247

FAP 24/7 Hotline
(760) 577-6484

National Domestic Violence Hotline
(800) 799-SAFE (7233)

National Hotline for Victims of Sexual Assault
(800) 656-4673

National Child Abuse Hotline
(800) 422-4453

National Suicide Prevention Hotline
(800) 273-TALK(8255)

Military One Source 24/7
(800) 342-9647

Civilian Victim Advocate
(760) 577-6533 730am-4pm



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